We had a simple dinner this evening. We sat around the “kitchen
table” that has been in constant use since we have been together, nearly 20
years, and before that by my family since 1940.
From 1940 until the 1980’s, it was where the meals were served
on the farm, at least three per day (it was the custom to have “lunch,” the fourth
meal, at 4:00 in the afternoon since it was late by the time the milking was
done at night). There weren’t many celebratory meals, that was not the way
things were done. Mostly, just hearty food, ordinary meals.
It is beginning to show its age, nearly 80 now. The top has
a bit of a crack, it has been refinished multiple times, the last when Linda
stripped several coats of paint and refinished it when we were in San Carlos. A
ceiling lamp fixture fell on it and left a divot. The chairs are needing
repair. There is a metaphor there, probably, as I approach my mid 70’s.
Do people retain, repair, reuse the objects of daily life
today? I’m not familiar with others, but not many drive a nearly 20-year-old
car, either. We read about the government employees that were not paid and
suffered during the recent shut down, and I wondered why none of them had
enough ready cash savings to withstand a financial setback.
The average Federal worker makes $84,000 per year. Many, I
assume, are two-paycheck families, as is the way Americans operate today. But
no food? Not able to pay for daily living for a few weeks?
Wonder how many of them have ancient tables and old cars?
That is a real “old fuddy-duddy” thing to wonder about, isn’t
it?